Today is my 21st birthday and I’ve been well and truly spoilt.

My manager at work got me a gorgeous ring and birthday cake.

My boyfriend treated me last week and has had some beautiful flowers delivered to my work.

My parents made an extra special fuss this morning with banners and cake.

I’ve spoilt myself and been out shopping.

I’ve never been so happy to have such amazing people around me. They’re amazing.

Now to work until 6pm and then go out for drinks and dancing this evening 🙂







Is our sole purpose in life to love and be loved? I have so many questions that I feel will never be answered. I see people that have been alone for decades and I wonder if they really are truly happy. Can you be happy without a soul mate? Do they even exist? Sometimes I think that I’m a firm believer in fate, other times it just seems like total nonsense. I guess soul mates do exist to a certain extent, perhaps not someone you’re going to fall in love with, but someone who enters your life for one purpose or another. Those who appear at what seems to be the perfect moment for the perfect reason. You fall in love with them, with their soul and every fibre of their being. Not always romantically, you never want them to leave your life because they bring so much joy and happiness. They make you feel like you’re at home, you’re safe. Someone once said you can find soul mates not only in lovers but also in friends. I like that.